The Magic words she wants to hear
Let’s face it, it is not I love you. There are other words which she craves for.
The first time Andy and I were together and he was hugging me tight, I could feel his warm breath against my neck. His hands were at my back and his cheeks were subtly placed against mine and he whispered that I am soft like a silk and he would like to hold me forever. It is the moment when I’ll believe anything he tells me.
I don’t consider myself beautiful but they way he looked into my eyes, it told me that how much he is proud of me.These are the times when he just looked at me and my heart understood every word he didn’t said. I smiled and leaned again on his shoulder and that moment i wished could last forever. After sometime I picked up my bag and kissed each other goodbye.
That evening may be andy didn’t understood the power of his words and actions and, no matter how inconsequential it was, it’s effect on me in his arms was phenomenal. How in few simple whispered words, he changed me.
Giving compliments is a work of art and a man should know when and what to say at times when a woman wants to hear such things.
Here a list of things which you could say which she wants to hear.
You’re Intelligent. Women want to be appreciated for their intelligence. By acknowledging her intelligence you tell her that it is not only the beauty that you appreciate in her.
You are Beautiful. Woman don’t consider themselves beautiful, even the most beautiful of the woman you see will have some doubts on her looks. The compliment which will give her an ego boost. It will place her among her peers. She’ll feel good about herself and will also feel less threatened by other women when they are around you. It is a sense of security you build for her, she will be trust you more. The more the relationship grows the more the effect of the compliment grows on her.
You’re my best friend. She wants to know if there is more than sex in this relationship. It is an confidence that you give her that you are not with her only because of her beauty or body. All you need to do is to tell her that she is your best friend.
I am so proud of you. Woman work hard to achieve things in life, ever heard woman complaining about things, she will not. She has her own struggles and yet she smiles and is happy with her own little things. Telling your woman how proud you are of her for all that she is doing and showing your support will make her heart melt.
You’re perfect. It could be that you are perfect for me. This statement says that you’ve accepted her completely. She will feel good and accepted and it makes her feel conscious about how much you openly and willingly accept her with her flaws.
I don’t want to be with anyone else. It says you cannot live without her, you want her in your life and you say this with all the feelings. This is one such statement which carries a huge impact and influence; it’s not many degrees away from proposing to her.
What do you Think? The statement shows that you’re genuinely concerned about her feelings and opinions and that matters in your life. Women love to express their feelings on every topic. Asking this question tells the one you love that you respect her views.
How was your day? Every girl wants to discuss what happened during the day. During childhood it is the mother, teens it is the friends and siblings. When she is in a relationship asking about her day assures that you’re willing to hear what she has to say.
You’re great in bed. This is a compliment every lady wants, use this compliment when you are really close with each other.
I love you. She wants to hear this again and again, in every conversation, in every moment of togetherness and when you are not together. I love you. By saying those three magic words you’re acknowledging an attachment to your woman and satisfying her most basic emotional need–to know how her man feels about her.